The chat room experience can be wildly unpredictable. Anything can happen, depending on who is on the guest list and the general drift of the invitation. They don’t need much encouragement to become fun perversions, safe places where one has the courage to do things that in other environments would be unthinkable. How fun is that? But they can also be cosy cubby holes in which intimate partnerships evolve. Make them a reflection of your inner self.